I struggle with plans, the clarity of them, the detail required, working within a time frame, the order of the steps and then, when the unexpected happens, what then? I hear judgement in the old adage of “if you fail to plan, you plan to fail”. No, I’m not planning that at all, I just don’t know what I don’t know.
I’ve tried many of the prescribed ways – with SMART goals, business plans, budgets, diets, planners and probably a few others as well. The detail of these plans takes me away from what I actually want. The way that works best for me is a creative process that starts with a vision board.
What I’m talking about is a big picture focus, a general idea of what I’m aiming for. Even if I’m not sure and it’s all a bit vague, I know once I start I get a clearer idea of what I want. I need to “put on the rose coloured glasses” as opposed to “get real”. My vision board is about energy and colour and balance and the feel of things, a whole perspective of what I want. The process itself allows me to immerse myself in what I want, without worrying about how it has to happen.
I’ve been known to start things without thinking them through and it’s usually not too long before I hit a problem I hadn’t expected. “You should’ve …..” or “I told you so” don’t work too well for me. Rest assured, when the problem hits I hear the message loud and clear – it’s time to get real. If I want success then I have to think it through; my planning begins in earnest. Despite my objections that I’m no good with detail this is when I find planners and budgets and SMART goal thinking have their place and I go right into the detail – when it’s due, the steps, how much it will cost, creating scale models, and playing until I know what to do next. The details begin to fall into place even if they don’t always go according to a calendar, or a clock, or a schedule, even if sometimes it’s little steps or sometimes it’s big bursts.
I’ve learned that planning to nth degree doesn’t work. I need time for lessons to be learned, disasters to run their course and new ideas to be born. The rebel in me doesn’t have patience for detail yet I have to acknowledge that a part of what I do so well is notice and factor in the detail needed; oh, what a circular argument! Planning requires a big picture view and focus on the detail. If all else fails, just start somewhere, even if where you start is taking the first step without thinking it through.
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