Do You Know Where You’re Going To?

Right now I’m in a place of flux. I’m questioning everything I’ve been doing and how it’s working for me. I’m feeling the frustration of things not happening as easily as I thought they would. I’m trying new things and seeing the outcomes and value I get from them and the value my clients are getting from them. Do I know where I’m going to? Sort of, but right now, things seem a bit vague.

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For some time now I’ve not been sure on how to put together the diverse offerings I have. How do they all fit together? I’ve tried compartmentalizing them – coaching, decluttering/organizing, bookkeeping services, public speaking and teaching, weight loss and do I use the intuition training I’ve had as a separate component or as an unspoken tool that adds to my other services? To add another layer – my surprise success has been in my services as a house/pet sitter. How the heck do I throw that in the mix and package it with everything else I do, or is that even relevant?

As an outsider, you might see obvious answers but as an insider, I’m lost in the logic of what I should do. I’m lost in the fear of having to go back to the “real world”. I’m lost in everyone else’s opinions of what I do or don’t do/should do, according to their world view.

Thank goodness for my support network who help me see things from the outside again – my coaches, mentors and supportive friends who can see past all those things I’m lost in, those who hold me to my greatness while I am in the place of seeing mainly darkness, and doubt. I’m grateful for the referrals and re-referrals that remind me just how much I am appreciated and for the new offers that allow me to use my skills in new ways. I am also grateful, in a whole other way, to those who are challenging me and showing me I’m definitely not being appreciated as I thought I was. My worldview is changing and that can only be a good thing.

I do know where I’m going to. I am clear on how I want to live my life and that’s a great motivator. I’m reconciling the differences between the either/or options I thought were the only ways I could get there. There are many ways of getting the outcomes I want – so many more than I once thought! The answers are coming. I do know where I’m going to; I just don’t know yet how I’m going to get there.

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